To Parents who want to connect with their kids…
How To Rebuild The Loving Connection With Your Kid
Dear Friend,

If you feel disconnected from your kids, I assure you, they’re feeling disconnected from you. They want to reconnect but don’t know how. 

How do I know this?

I talked with over 3,000 kids in my qualitative research. 

If you’re feeling:
  • Disconnected from your kids
  • Stuck with one-word answers
  • Struggling to get your son or daughter to spend time with the family

— keep reading, because this will be the most valuable letter you’ve ever read… (and here’s why)

I’m Jeff Schadt, the author of The One Rule Home: Breaking Through With Your Kids and Going, Going Gone: Protecting Teens Hearts that are on the Edge. 

In the last two decades, I’ve spoken to over 1,000,000 parents… 
… and helped hundreds of struggling children become 

the type of kids who want to spend time with mom and dad — in just 3-6 months depending on your situation…

Parents even tell me I’ve “saved their kid’s lives.”

Best of all, my 15-year-old and adult children spend time with me all the time. In fact, most nights you’ll find me and my kids playing a game, watching a movie or working on a project.

(But let me tell you…) —>

It wasn’t always like this…

It all started with my first child, when she was 9. She wouldn’t take responsibility… for ANYTHING.

She would lie about everything under the sun, and it was hard for me to be around her due to her “EXTREME attitude.”

For example, she would hit her brother right in front of us and then deny it ever happened… 

…Or she would pull her sister's hair and wouldn’t admit it. Ever. Even when we watched it happen!

We’d constantly find things she’d lied about and hide it.

So then we sat and debated with her to try to get her to own up to what she was doing…

…and when she wouldn’t, we’d give her a consequence. 

It would take 90 minutes of hell just to get her to finally admit ANYTHING. I thought the lectures and consequences would make things better. It didn’t. 

I watched my daughter get harder and more and more distant. In fact, we found she just got better at hiding things from us.

I was desperate.

My wife and I tried various faith-based parenting strategies and experts. “Growing Kids God’s Way”, Dr. Leman, Dr. Dobson. But nothing seemed to work. 

Things kept getting worse...


I felt like a failure. I was going to seminary to become a pastor, and couldn’t even get my daughter to be close to me. 

How in the world was I ever going to lead a church and help other people with their kids?

So I decided to start talking to kids.

… what I found shook me to the core

Over 18 months, I interviewed over 3,000 kids.

Most kids rated their relationship with their parents as poor, very poor, or nonexistent. 

When I talked to their parents, they thought everything was fine. How can this be?

Kids put on an act for their parents because they hate the conflict more than we do. So they play the part of a happy kid while silently growing harder and more distant from their parents. 

When I took what the kids were telling me about their relationships with their parents to my kids, I discovered they saw me the exact same way. 

That was when I was convicted I looked nothing like Jesus to my own kids.

I Found That Everything We’ve All Been Taught About Parenting IS A LIE!

It was destroying our kids.

Yes, even all the advice from the "experts"

What makes them experts? A degree in psychology? 

I was talking to a psychologist just the other day and he was frustrated with the fact that one of the prominent parenting experts with a bestselling book had only taken one or maybe two classes on families or children in his entire degree.

This is why everything with kids is getting worse. 

Nobody has taken the time to figure out what’s causing the issues. 

But we have.

Through my qualitative research with 3,000 kids, I found that everything we're taught focuses ON our kids' behaviors. Not WHAT drives our kids' behaviors!

The current parenting style we’ve all been taught is kind of like…

Pulling Dandelions From The Yard

Ever wonder why they keep growing back? It’s because we left the roots in place. So they get bigger and stronger. Similar to what happens with our kids when we focus on their behavior.

But when parents focus on WHY their kids are doing things, we can root that out and prevent it from happening over and over again.

Why does the behavior come back? Because, according to psychology, only 5% of thoughts and emotions are conscious. 

But parenting experts teach us to focus on the green part of the weed, the conscious part of the thoughts and emotions we can see. 

Also known as… their bad behavior.

We’ve found that the bad behaviors come back because we haven’t addressed the 95% of thoughts and emotions that are unconscious. Or the roots underneath our kids' bad behavior.

When I discovered this, I was stunned! Why had I never heard this before?

It made so much sense. As parents, we have not been taught how to go after the roots. 

Unlike you, I didn’t have someone to walk me through the change. So it took some time for me to develop a completely different approach with my kids. 

An approach I called The One Rule Home. 

And the results were Amazing!

My 9-year-old went from denying everything to voluntarily coming to me, admitting mistakes, and even apologizing!

I was floored. Because of the One Rule Home approach, my daughter was now taking responsibility and totally changing her behavior! Without me having to cajole, prompt, argue, debate or even mention it. 

Her response caused me to have to rewrite my sermon because that story was just so appropriate for what I was talking about on Sunday. 

My daughter had gone from hard, defiant and hidden…

…to soft-hearted, pliant, and open because of The One Rule method.

Once we began to target the roots below our kids' behavior, everything changed:
  • We stopped nearly all the fighting
  • We could finally understand each other
  • Peace, laughter, and closeness returned
  • ​As our kids grew closer, fear of how our kids would turn out disappeared
  • ​I felt like I was ten years younger. I didn’t realize how exhausting the conflict had been
So after my research with 3,000 kids and implementing it in my own home, I started doing parenting seminars, and people would come up to me and say,

“You understand kids way better than our counselor does, would you help us with our kids?”

And the results were incredible:


“As a mom and professional counselor I have reviewed many parenting programs. One Rule Home is now my number one resource for parents as well as my family.”
Holly Pankratz, Licensed Counselor, Mom of 3

“We saw Instant results, I mean INSTANT!”
Cece D., Mom of 3

“The conversations I had with my daughter about the research and her life were profound and her anger issue DISAPPEARED!”
Miriam Noonan, Mom

"Absolutely the best solutions for parents that is available today. Jeff is uniquely qualified as a leader in the field of childhood/adolescent/adult transition. Give him a try and you will not be disappointed. He knows this territory like a faithful mountain guide." 
Pastor Scott Pixler, Father of 3, and Campus Minister

“You have changed my son through me!”
Rick Rablin, Father of 17 year old Testimonial

I want to help families and kids because I know how it feels to be desperate and at the end of your rope. 

I know what it feels like to be so frustrated with your kids when nothings seems to work.

…You begin to lose hope that it can ever get better…

That’s why I’m launching a 12 week program, where I’ll personally be helping you implement The One Rule Home method…

… and help you experience the joy of being a parent I’ve found, and helped hundreds of others find too.

To ensure everyone can discover the benefits of a One Rule Home, I can only help 10 couples (or single parents) at a time.

Do you feel like you’re going through what I went through? 

I’d love to talk with you to understand your situation and see how I can help. Go ahead and book a (completely free) call with me below:

I’ll answer your questions and we’ll discuss how you can find the love, peace, and closeness that will change your kids' lives forever.

To Your Family,
Jeff Schadt

Family Coach
One Rule Home

P.S. - If the link doesn't work, it means that we’re full on spots, and if that does happen: contact me here: coach@revivefamily.com, and I’ll see what I can do…

P.P.S. - Want a free copy of my earth-shattering book ‘The One Rule Home?’ Schedule a call, and attend the consult and we’ll ship you one for free.
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